You Don't Have to Trash Your Dress!

 

Even though I still want to do a super fun Trash the Dress session (where we just completely destroy your wedding dress for the sake of amazing pictures) with someone, you don't have to trash your dress to wear it again.  You can be an Anniversary Bride!!  I have recently done two sessions where the wedding dress was donned and photos were taken as an anniversary gift for the hubby (and parents, too!).  I think this is just such a fun idea.  First, you get to feel good about yourself that you can still fit into your dress (and if you can't I can make it look like you do!), and secondly, if there were any shots you missed at your wedding, we can stage anything you want!  There's also a bit of a supermodel aspect to the whole thing.  How often do you get to walk around in probably the most formal dress you will ever wear with paparazzi (me) following you?  Total diva moment.

 

I have just never really "gotten" any of the great ideas for things to do with your wedding dress after the wedding, except pictures (because those are awesome, clearly).  About ten years ago, everyone had their preserved in the acid free cardboard-ish box where the bodice showed throw a clear cellophane window in the front, remember?  Do people still do this?  This never made sense to me because what are you really going to do with your dress in a cardboard box.  Why do you want the bodice to show through a cellophane window?  It's confusing to me.  I, on the other hand, made the wise preservation choice of doing nothing with my dress.  It's still hanging in a closet in my mother's house, about three feet from where I took it off after the wedding.  While, perhaps, not the best preservation idea, I doubt that I will ever have a progeny that will beg to wear it.  Let's be honest, it won't be in style in 20+ years and if a child did want to wear it I would hope she would be amazing enough to take the original fabric and transform the dress into something amazing of her own.  What did you do with your dress?  Where did you decide to make her final resting place?
 

 

One last note about trashing the dress: I understand about the sentimental value of your wedding dress and the need to not destroy it (OK, I don't really understand that but I respect your right to not destroy your dress:), but I have seen several brides who have done a fun trash the dress session (in a pool, lake, river, rolling around in paint, etc.), not in their original dress, but in one they picked up for cheap at a consignment shop, but still loved.  Let's face it...didn't we all love a million dresses when trying to choose "the one"?  What do we think about this idea?  I LOVE it!!

Secrets Revealed!!

Oh, I've kept the most exhilarating secret for so long and now I can tell the world!!  My sweet friend Mary Kathryn, whose blog you can check out HERE, had an amazing idea to slap her gorgeous wedding dress back on and do a photo session as a surprise for her hubby for their anniversary.  How sweet is that?!  If you're so inclined you can read the saga of the wedding dress HERE, it's amazing, hilarious, and not a bit heart-warming.  One of the many fab parts of this surprise is that MK worked so hard to get back into her wedding dress after babies and looked SO amazing, v. proud of her, and jealous of her tiny waist!

We snuck off in the middle of the night (OK, it wasn't the middle of the night but it would make a more intriguing story!) but it was a late Sunday afternoon.  We be-bopped all around downtown Northport and had a ridiculously good time, despite the bugs.  Side note: there are lots of bugs outside when it's 90 degrees...especially when you're wearing a wedding dress, who knew?! (note to self: bring bug-spray next time!).

Thanks to MK for standing on her head when I asked her to and generally being a super good sport, even though I broke one of her "M"s that came from Hobby Lobby.  I know I haven't mentioned the big "T" on here but, if you're familiar, we no longer have a Hobby Lobby, MK is totally obsessed with Hobby Lobby, and I was kind of devastated to destroy such a treasured memento.  Ok, I'm being dramatic, like she said, it was $9.99 and she bought it with a half-off coupon, but still, it's the principle of the matter, no more Hobby Lobby.  The moral of this part of the story is this: everyone write to Hobby Lobby and make sure they reopen in Tuscaloosa!  Anyway, to end on a happy note, here are some stunning images of a stunning woman, inside and out...enjoy!

UPDATE: Check out the Facebook album HERE to see the rest of Mk's pictures!